I’ve been hearing stories recently about short-term mission workers whose time abroad has been rudely interrupted by Covid.
Young people on a gap year who had barely got into their stride in the field when their agency called them back home. People on a DTS who can’t go on outreach. Medical students planning an elective abroad whose plans have been frustrated.
For many of these people it was a once-in-a-lifetime chance to serve God abroad, and now it’s not happening. Perhaps it’s never going to happen. Many of these people are disappointed, confused and angry. They need to process this. They have questions like “Why did God send me abroad only to bring me back again?”
An interesting Biblical case to look at is John Mark. He went with his uncle Barnabas and with Paul on their first mission trip to Cyprus. We don’t know if they originally planned to go on to what is now Turkey, but they did, and for some unknown reason Mark went home. We don’t know why. Perhaps he was homesick, perhaps he didn’t like the food. Quite possibly he didn’t get on with Paul! Whatever the reason, Paul clearly regarded it as desertion and refused to take him on the next trip (Acts 15:36-41).
Mark could just as well have asked, “what was all that about?” He’d been willing to travel for the Lord. He’d stepped out in faith and perhaps thought of a life in ministry. And now he was back home in Jerusalem. Fortunately his uncle believed in him and took him with him on another trip to Cyprus. This gentle restoration led Mark back into a life of mission, associated with both Peter and again Paul.
So for people grappling with their disappointment and frustration, here are a few suggestions:
Find a Barnabas. Identify someone in your church (preferably with mission experience) who can mentor you through this, help you ask the right questions and seek God for what comes next. Or perhaps your agency can find you a staff member or retired mission worker to do this. Don’t grapple with it alone.
It’s not about you. OK, so you wanted to experience another culture, enjoy different food, enhance your CV. How much of that was about you, and how much was being available to serve God wherever he wants you to be? Yes, there is an element of personal enjoyment in much of our travel, but if God’s now saying he wants you here, how are you going to get on and do that with as much enthusiasm as you were pouring into your overseas mission?
It’s not once in a lifetime. So you were going to take a gap year before going to university. Great! But just because that opportunity has been taken away doesn’t mean that was your one shot at it You could go after university. Or later, in between jobs. In fact, you can go any time at all. Who goes straight from uni onto the career ladder and stays there for 40 years anyway? I took my gap year when I was 32, taking a year out from my job to do short-term mission. I just never went back!
God told me to do this, and I did, and it didn’t work out. This is perhaps the most challenging of all questions, and it’s too big to unpack in a single paragraph. But God isn’t necessarily looking for success – he’s looking for obedience and faithfulness.
Mission work is full of frustrations and while with grace and support long-termers may learn to take these in their stride, for many short-termers it can be their first taste of things not working out and it comes as a nasty shock. We’ve blogged a few times about disappointment, why not take a look at some of the other blogs and see if there is some help in there for you?
Original article, ‘So what was that all about?’, first published at https://www.syzygy.org.uk/ on 27th April 2020.
Original photo by Daniel Lim on Unsplash
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